Hey Sylvester Amponsah, thanks for always reading and sharing your thoughts on my pieces. It really is a counterintuitive approach, but it is helpful for those who are afraid to live their own unique lives and are afraid to shine as an individual. The phrase is actually from a book: https://www.amazon.com/Courage-Be-Disliked-Phenomenon-Happiness/dp/1501197274. It’s based on the philosophy and findings of Adlerian psychology. It’s a fun book — the whole book is based on conversations between a young man and a wise older mentor who introduces the ideas of Alfred Adler. If you haven’t read it yet I highly recommend :)